Comments on: 36 years ago… http://dorigo.wordpress.com/2006/05/16/36-years-ago/ private thoughts of a physicist and chessplayer Thu, 24 Dec 2009 08:50:26 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Tommaso Dorigo http://dorigo.wordpress.com/2006/05/16/36-years-ago/#comment-360 Tommaso Dorigo Wed, 17 May 2006 07:08:53 +0000 https://dorigo.wordpress.com/2006/05/16/36-years-ago/#comment-360 Thank you both for your comments... I agree with Riqie's comment and also agree that knowledge of the truth is always the recipe for mutual understanding. T. Thank you both for your comments… I agree with Riqie’s comment and also agree that knowledge of the truth is always the recipe for mutual understanding.
T.

]]> By: Hal Porter http://dorigo.wordpress.com/2006/05/16/36-years-ago/#comment-358 Hal Porter Tue, 16 May 2006 21:11:37 +0000 https://dorigo.wordpress.com/2006/05/16/36-years-ago/#comment-358 We don't know the details, but in the abscence of more information, I think it was probably the loving thing for your father to share the information with you. Knowing the truth is usually better than guessing it. I say this from very different family situation involving my mother's adoption. Sharing the truth, which wasn't so terrible, would have set a lot of people free. What this means for your father I can't guess. At this point, whatever gives him peace. We don’t know the details, but in the abscence of more information, I think it was probably the loving thing for your father to share the information with you. Knowing the truth is usually better than guessing it.

I say this from very different family situation involving my mother’s adoption. Sharing the truth, which wasn’t so terrible, would have set a lot of people free.

What this means for your father I can’t guess. At this point, whatever gives him peace.

]]> By: riqie arneberg http://dorigo.wordpress.com/2006/05/16/36-years-ago/#comment-356 riqie arneberg Tue, 16 May 2006 20:58:02 +0000 https://dorigo.wordpress.com/2006/05/16/36-years-ago/#comment-356 While one cannot make decisions for others, I can,perhaps, offer a bit of wisdom. Forgiveness benefits the offender but little, but it can benefit the victim immensely, freeing him from the burden of maintain anger. While one cannot make decisions for others, I can,perhaps, offer a bit of wisdom. Forgiveness benefits the offender but little, but it can benefit the victim immensely, freeing him from the burden of maintain anger.

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